Maybe growing older isn't about fixing who we used to be. Maybe it's finally understanding her. Dear younger me, I wish I could tell you that I've figured everything out. That eventually you reach an age where you stop questioning yourself. You stop worrying. You stop making mistakes. You stop caring what people think. You finally become this wonderfully evolved woman who drinks enough water, gets eight hours of sleep, remembers every appointment and never lies awake replayin

Why do some mistakes become hilarious stories while others stay with us for years? I've accidentally crossed the Canadian border. Twice. You would think after accidentally entering another country once, a person might become particularly skilled at recognizing international borders. Apparently not. And you know what? I can laugh about it. It's ridiculous. It's exactly the kind of story that gets better with time. You tell it over drinks. People laugh. You laugh. Someone inevi

What happens when you stop trying to earn something that was already yours? There is a word I think a lot of us spend most of our lives chasing. Enough. Good enough. Successful enough. Thin enough. Pretty enough. Productive enough. Interesting enough. Strong enough. Helpful enough. Accomplished enough. We tell ourselves that once we finally reach some invisible line, we'll relax. We'll feel confident. We'll stop questioning ourselves. We'll finally be able to look at our live

The ideas we carry about sex, desire, intimacy, and our bodies didn't appear out of nowhere. Maybe it's time to decide which ones still belong to us. Have you ever stopped and wondered where your beliefs about sex actually came from? Not what you believe today. Go further back. Before the relationships. Before the marriage. Before the heartbreaks, experiences, confidence, insecurities and years of figuring yourself out. Where did you first learn what sex was supposed to be? B